I was in the car jamming out to older country music bringing out the redneck in me (ha) and “He Didn’t Have To Be” by Brad Paisley started playing and I got allllll in my feels.
It starts off with the lyrics below. I was about 5 years old when my previous step dad (Joe) came into the picture. He passed away back in 2011 and I do miss him a lot. He raised my brother, sister and I like we were his own and I am so thankful every day that this man came into our lives.
When a single mom goes out on a date with somebody new
It always winds up feeling more like a job interview
My momma used to wonder if she’d ever meet someone
Who wouldn’t find out about me and then turn around and run
I met the man I call my dad when I was five years old
He took my mom out to a movie and for once I got to go
A few months later I remember lying there in bed
I overheard him pop the question and prayed that she’d say yes
And then all of a sudden
Oh, it seemed so strange to me
How we went from something’s missing
To a family
Lookin’ back all I can say
About all the things he did for me
Is I hope I’m at least half the dad
That he didn’t have to be